We have all heard of the very common phrase, “opposites attract”. So what’s all this opposites attract theory which some are believers of, yet others are doubters; while some simply don’t care at all? But take note that there are also other people who stay firm in their belief that they are very much attracted to their own “breed”.
So they don't believe in the opposites attract theory. But which one is it really: opposite poles attract or birds of the same feather flock together? Believe it or not, it can be both. Illusion is the reason why the ideas of opposites attract exist. Hmmm…still vague? intrigued now? Okay, more on opposites attract--you have probably heard of tales of persons who endlessly engage in squabbles the first time they meet; and the ironic stuff here is, more often than not, they would eventually end up being buddies.
Did it happen to you or to some of your friends—did they tell you that “You know, the first time I met Tom, I really, really disliked him. But hey, as time passed by and when we got to know each other well, what do you know! We discovered we have the same thing for sushi and we get along really well now”.
Well, indeed, who would have thought? And so some might refer to this as opposites attract. Again on the outside, it can be that way. Then you ask, why does this occur? What is this enigmatic phenomenon exactly? Actually, these individuals are very much alike. And this is the explanation behind why at first they had that glaring difference and it’s also the rationale behind why they would become close pals in the end.
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